Growing Younger : Welcoming families into the local church
by Roger Morgan
For many local churches the big question is ‘how can we attract families to our church?’ Nationally child attendance is in decline, and the average age of our congregations is rising. Roger Morgan has spent a number of years researching good practice in children’s ministry, and he has identified a number of simple steps that can be taken by any church wishing to grow younger.
Growing Younger begins with two basic questions:
How can a church with very few children become a church with lots of children?
How can a church which does have children best nurture those children so as to ensure that most of them enter adult life as disciples of Jesus?
Based on the experience of churches all over the country, Growing Younger seeks to provide answers to these questions. Designed as a handbook to good practice, it includes many stories and offers a practical way forward for any church in any situation.
The answer which Growing Younger gives to the first question is to embark on a series of steps. If these steps are followed one by one, then sooner or later more and more children will become involved. The first step is to put someone in charge of the ministry to families, ideally someone who is paid by the church. The second step is for the lead person to recruit a small team to work with him or her on the project. The third step is for this team to find ways to spend lots of time with families, and the fourth step is to launch a regular event of some kind – an event designed to attract the families the team is getting to know. Growing Younger discusses the style of this event and its contents and suggests a number of alternatives. It also discusses how to work with and in schools, and how to develop activities for secondary age children.
The answer to the second question is that children will grow and flourish only if a deliberate attempt is made to disciple them. We agree wholeheartedly with the statement “there is no such thing as a junior Holy Spirit”. Whatever can be expected of adults can also be expected of children.
Here are some stories of real children who were nurtured by good churches and taught to have a personal relationship with God:
Sam’s father died when he was eight. At first Sam was very angry with God but then Sam decided to put his future in God’s hands and to trust him. As a result Sam’s intimacy with his heavenly father is growing daily.
Polly heard about the Holy Spirit and she asked Jesus to fill her. The encounter with God that followed is something she often talks about.
Susan has learned that God answers her prayers. When she wants something either for herself or others, she always asks God if it is okay to pray. If the answer is ‘yes’ then she goes ahead. Susan’s faith is growing.
Philip goes to a school where success in the exams is everything. But Philip listened to what they said at Sunday Club about work being a way of glorifying God, so now he does his work to please God. The stress has gone.
At Emma’s school all the girls have best friends, but Emma has no one. At church Emma learned that everyone matters to God so she has decided that everyone will matter to her, even the people who tease her or ignore her. As a result Emma has made lots of new friends.
Alfie has prayed for his friends and invites them to church at every opportunity. One of his friends has become a Christian and is doing well.
Clare learned at church that the Holy Spirit can give power to heal. She asked for this power and she started to pray for her friends when they were sick. One day one of her friends was healed through her prayers.
Frankie has memorised twenty promises from the Bible. Day by day he lives by those promises.
Ellie sets her alarm and gets up every day to pray and read her Bible. She is very confident now that her heavenly father loves her and is with her every day. In her quiet times Ellie often hears God speaking to her.
Growing Younger can help you to produce children like these.
Growing Younger explains the steps that need to be taken in order to get a good children’s programme going, but to succeed will take determination. We are available to walk alongside a church on this journey; to find out more, contact us.
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